>>35941
well the point of that difference in definitions of what is consensual and what is not is exactly why stuff which is consensual for me is non consensual for you

and the meaning of this discussion is not to convince you to like something but to understand your reasoning so that I could try to use it in some way.

>>35992
while I will not change what I do completely, some changes are possible. So I want to find out what really matters here.