On this web site, I see mostly women getting mutilated. And the manga recommendations I see for guro is mostly female mutilation.

But on other sites it feels that there is a huge community of (mostly) women into male mutilation.

Let's discuss: what's you gender and do you like seeing victims of your sex, or opposite sex? What's the gender breakdown of the fans you have interacted with and their interests?

All the people I have met outside the internet who enjoy guro are women who prefer male victims. But of course, it's not quite as taboo for a woman to say she enjoys that, versus the inverse…