I just want to share IRL femdom-archetypes ("guro level" femdom) I have, mostly based on non-porn stuff I've been seeing, and find arousing:
>Death-Match pro wrestler \Joshi femdom: being set on fire, thrown against light tubes, hit with bricks, things like that .or tied with barbed wire instead of ropes. an specific fantasy is Risa Sera beating me up with her kendo wooden swords
>hybristophilia: violent serial killers like "the bride of Chucky" from russia, or chicago's Girl Assasin Ki
>upper-class Misandrist girls: Ironically the LEAST realistic fantasy! basically a rich woman who hates men offers me money to let me get humiliated\ tortured by her and her other rich friends