I don't think you can reliably count on other's experience to predict how it will go for you.
Anyone you disclose this to has to be:
a)a really open minded person or
b)one of your closest friends that's ALSO at least a bit open minded
So far I haven't trusted anyone that much as to disclose my fetish, but at the same time it wasn't really necessary. I have watched a few 'normal' porn vids and know a few porn star names so that when I get in that kind of discussion I don't look weird for not knowing stuff.