It's one of those things that my friends and anyone aware of my online presence knows about. My boyfriend has been aware since the beginning of our relationship, and while he doesn't share the kink he is totally accepting and mildly fascinated.

As far as anyone else goes... It's none of their business. I don't care if they find out, but it's not something I feel the need to admit to anyone outside of my circle. That's why a lot of people get ostracized by their friends or family. Your kinks aren't so important to your identity that you should have to let everybody you know into it. There's this thing called a private life.

I guess I'm lucky since I grew up with a lot of people who generally didn't give a fuck about whatever I was into, so I have a different opinion of spreading that kind of business.