>>4141
Very well said. I love it.

>>4030 Talking again:
I have a couple friends that would probably freak out if they knew what I was into, but they'd maybe freak out about some mild BDSM stuff. Point is, it doesn't matter. I don't talk sex with those friends and I don't need or want to.

My kinks aren't the same as my identity. Everyone has sexual desires, mild to extreme. Sex is hard-wired in to us all. Who we ARE doesn't need to be tied to that.