for me, it hasnt gone away. But its at least normal now. I can have an erection, and have sex with my wife. But I never cum. Shes fine with it, I get her off, and then in my private time I get myself off.

Thats fine with me, just sex alone isnt all that sexy. To be honest I only have sex for her benefit. I fap off to this shit on Gurochan because that is what gets me hot and bothered.