>>4274
>>While masturbating, i was erect in a second and came quickly

Ok but was it "premature ejaculation" or you deliberately made it fast?
I wonder what is your masturbation preferences do you do it for as long as you have free time or you just do it just to get rid of it.
I think it is quite waste to come quickly all fun is to do it for hours until finally you have to sleep or go somewhere and even then you can avoid orgasm and keep it for later.


>.Sure, fantasizing gets me in the mood, too. But it seems odd to try and fantasize about something completely different from what you're experiencing with the girl.

Yes, but this is practically unavoidable because when you are really aroused your fantasies will go on their own.
Sometimes I can't even read erotic story or manga because my fantasies are taking over and derailing everything.
what looks pretty strange when you read story and imagine something different in your head.

When you are with your girlfriend you should be imagining how you will rape and torture her later and preferably she should share your fantasies and play along too. I suspect that women do not really care what you think about them as long as you think about them and this is what makes them happy. So even if you dream about torturing her she should be happy if she is sure that she is safe.
Just makes sure to make it clear that you need her.

Of course if you will ever decide to tell your girlfriend about your fantasies do it slowly not so freak her out.

Execution your fantasies is completely different thing because even if you get chance to do it usually you notice that it is very different from what you imagined.


>>I want to ask you something. When you fap alone, programming or anything, is the sensation from your hands on your genitals the only cause of arousal/erection or do you get "distracted" by sexual thoughts?

I do not do that anymore but yes cause or erection is usually sensation from my hands without assistance there is arousal but very little or weak erection.
I do not have constant sexual thoughts when working I only have those thought occasionally. Probably it is same sensation as your "blue balls"
I think it woud be same for you if you just masturbated without orgasm.