I think it is not appropriate to use personal experience as proof or discuss my "sucess" with women.
This is even more ridiculous because we are on the site where people are not very normal and If my interest were just normal relationship and plain vanilla sex, I woud not be here.

As for statistical numbers, let's compare how much content is created by men and women here or on any other site.
Women can whine, but they rarely do something on their own.
Of course there are exceptions but this is like white crows.
Any woman who shows initiative will be drowned in attention and proposals from various men to become her friends.