If not a literal dictator, but instead an absolute ruler, I would make a harem of quadruple amputee sex slaves. Some will be voluntary concubines that want a life in the palace, others will be criminals carrying out a life sentence, and a few will be handpicked maidens that just happen to have caught my eye that I had seized and converted into a quad amputee. Political opponents, traitors, and enemies of the throne will also be amputated too and their vocal cords removed should they try to go against me, no matter if they are man or woman, and be kept as living trophies signifying my totalitarian rule.

Love and sex for the limbless harem, sadism and endless torture for the limbless trophies.