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A bad parent is not same as neglecting parent because too much attention may be also bad just like neglect.

But in my situation I can say that anything of that is applicable besides the fact that my parents may be just too stupid and they don't know the rules on how they are supposed to help their children to get status along with their peers. And they may not be aware of how society works in general so they do more harm than benefit. But even that is not so critical.

I find that my biggest problem was actually lack of friends or what is even more disappointing there were no sexual encounters in my childhood of any kind.

Now I read those stories about boys being molested by their gorgeous teachers and I think dam if That happened to me, I see other people telling how they played doctor or did similar stuff, but nothing like that happened to me either.

I noticed that other people somewhat suffer from the same problem because ideal development for the introverted child is when they are forcefully put in the company with some other child (preferably opposite sex) of similar age which they cant neither avoid or escape for a considerably long time. This is the best way to build a relationship and and learn social skills. Parents are not very important in this situation. because children have to learn how to rely on each other instead of their parents and how to care for each other needs.

When you have parents who neglect you, you are forced to rely on other kids and if it happens that you find friends who are also equally neglected you build very good friendships that last for the rest of life.

When you have good parents you do not really need friends, you can spend time together and have fun but you don't need anyone.
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