>>8170

First off, I commend you for taking the time to browse the board rather than confronting him right away. I only have generic advice, though; I'd recommend having a discussion with him about whether he feels like his fetishes are harmless fantasies or if he feels like he could eventually hurt someone (or you) as a result. There's a variety of people here, from people who are totally harmless to those who are real sickos lol.

Also, don't force yourself to indulge him if his fetishes disgust you. There's no reason why you should be into the same things that he is.

Good luck! I wish I had more constructive advice to give, but I hope that everything works out for you two.