I've met 3 in real life and it could be more but like, why would I need it to be?

It required being sensitive, patient, kind, and extremely candid. And anyone who doesnt desire and respect those things is not worth meeting with

Because if were both into guro and were not being candid about our interests, one of us could die, or be for real tortured instead of hot tortured.

It happened roleplaying with someone daily for several months, asking them how their day was and telling them about mine a little whenever it felt like a casual and warm environment would be nice. Im also the kind of person people feel they can tell anything. One of the girls wasnt into guro when I met her in an online game but became about it after falling… for me… that's a long story (hi if you're reading cotton ball)

*ahem*

Anyway. It's a long con to meet girls but if you approach life with no expectations and focus on doing what you enjoy, and meeting people while doing it, they will come.