>>9346
>But don't you make a good example of someone very unwelcoming…?


No, I don't think I am unwelcoming maybe I can be a bit too nice for women because they are an extreme oddity in any community which does not talk about babies and money.
But generally, I treat them the same as everyone.


I am just unwelcome to man-hating lesbos (and frigid bicthes) because they are not going to interact with you anyway, the only conversation you will have with them as a guy is being told to stay away from their sight.
But if a woman is not sexist I am nice to her too.


From the posts here, I am getting I impression that this may be exactly the problem. Those women describe they want to to have their separate safe space where men are not allowed to enter at all and only then they will feel welcome. If they don't get that safe space they usually leave.