Hi, i dont have time to read all this but Im very happy some women came into the debate to give their piece of the story.

I have incredible amounts of respect and admiration for the frustration you go through to explain all this to us.

Ive been in a lot of women owned porn spaces now and theyre definitely different. A lot better. Basically, theyre treated like a bar would be in real life: people are banned for disturbing others. The communities are nicer and usually fairly sizeable, but you wouldnt get invited to one unless you were being social in the guro community for a long time AND you were really nice and docile.

Anyone saying anything along the likes of "lulzor women online are fake pics or it didnt happen" isnt grtting an invite. Anybody who jumps into girls DMs without any reason to except "hi omg youre a girl, thats hot." Isnt getting an invite. Anybody who jumps into chat and says "I love pics of girls eyeballs getting fucked by orangutangs" and never talks about anything else isnt getting an invite.

Basically, if you cant contribute to the social aspect of a place and you think "lol were all anonymous online, everyones a dick so I will be too, idgaf what other people think, theyre weak if they dont follownmy hard truths or get my quirky humor"

Those types of people dont last more than a couple days in a chat with more than 30% girls. Seemsnto me like girls just go where theyre treated okay and where no one makes fun of you for saying you just had a good glass of tea. Not to say that its all prim and proper fluffy girl talk, but it has to be a place where thar conversation doesnt get cut off by someone saying "awh yeah, tea is hot. I bet you would love burning my dick with that hot tea mommy."

Thats what most of the internet acts like, and thats why female communitirs thrive well in more large but private, strictly controlled sectors.

In my suuuper humble opinion, im kinda guessing and Im also at work so I dont have a ton of time to be accurate and careful with the knowledge im trying to disseminate like a lot of the people here.

But basically, if someone says theyre a girl and starts talking about their experience as a girl, just listen to them. Theyre the expert on their own life, so Im not liking that Im seeing men telling men what being a girl is like online, and what girls like and how girls act. Ill read more of this thread later and post more aviut my experiences if I can bare to but Im going to need more rational people to speak up and show that theyre here and theyre listening, or Ill get too angry as I read.