>>9383
> At least all women I met so far had no desire to dominate or get on top of everyone. They do not feel much of pleasure just by knowing that "I am on the top" they are ways more interested in "how useful this is to me"

I would agree with this, actually. Not that women don't want to dominate specific others, but that women don't want to be the top. But if you want to be "on top"… there is room for very few people in the world who are "on top." You and I aren't among them. But there are a lot of men who try to fake being "on top." Who act like they have no fear, or can never be hurt. If they can convince one person they are in absolute control, they believe that is true.

Those men are either resolutely delusional, or vulnerable as soon as you figure out what part of their lives they're insecure about their lack of control over. The latter is kind of hot, but also frustrating.

This 'invulnerable image', it's why you find basically no women who are pure dominants… being 100% dominant requires that level of delusion towards your own self-worth, which it's rare for women who aren't super chuunibyou (no self-awareness) to achieve… at the end of the day, we all have vulnerabilities, it's more interesting not to pretend!