Well, to tell the truth, I am quite terrified of women too, but not because I fear them as something scary but because I am afraid that they will see what I am really feeling and what I want while being with them.

I am quite perverted and think about sex almost all the time so ideally even when discussing evolution I would rather do it while my opponent is playing with my dick.

So the fear is all about how far I can go with this specific woman not to be labeled as a pervert in front of everyone or that she will think I am creepy, which is a bit hard when every time I look at any decent looking woman I think how I am going to stick 12-inch dildo in her butt or if I hug one I think about the size and softness of her tits and how hard I can rub myself into them before she will, notice something strange.

I do not see them as scary monsters, I just see them as frigid and mercantile people who barely can think beyond mundane matters. Of course, there are exceptions but those are hard to encounter in the real world, especially when you live in a small town.

I hardly can imagine how a woman can abuse a man, maybe she can only file false rape accusations at most or publically humiliate you but that's a bit too extreme.
All other forms of abuse can be resisted and actually can be seen as a form of fun where you just take revenge later or they can be even enjoyed as a form of attention.
I actually see any kind of attack or misbehavior as a license to do the same back. You know the golden rule is totally valid here "treat other people the same as they treat you"