>>10641
Well, that depends on your dominance and submissiveness(aka agreeableness) levels, homophobia and sex drive.

For example for me being hugged by some superior figure does not feel that good or safe, it makes me feel low because I don't want my life to depend on someone else. Hugging someone inferior or weaker than me is pretty pleasant as an expression of my power. If we both are on the same level this starts to feel sexual. As if we both are in a good mood it should continue into something more pleasant

So to cure someone dominant, you need not make him safe but to let him make someone else safe and put him in the situation when someone depends on him not when he depends on someone.


>>10644
I think nobody really cares what women do in war or how they save kittens from the burning houses. That is cuck thinking in the first place when you care more about the world more than you care about yourself.

What matters is what those women do for you and what they think about you.


>>10647
this actually happens most of the time when you find out how the things work
and that you will never get what you really want.
You either get into depression or into this angered state
so maybe it is not really that bad because it is better than depression
The next step getting out of that state is to become cynic.