>>10835
You wrote a lot indeed, but basicaly what you said is this: in order to have a mature relation with a woman, a man must understand her needs and mold his behavior in such a way the woman will accept him as a partner.This is all fine and well if the women would do the same.But this allmost never happens! Why? Because, of many factors, first, women have diferent libidos than men, while it's more difficult for men to marry or have relations after a certain age, women have little problems with this also women are natural attractors, while men have to work to gain the courship of a woman(this is seen not only in humans but in nature as well).Women can also stay without men for a long period of time, and don't need the motivation of a man to achive their goals in life.Women need men for stability and support and some of them don't need that either.While most men will do poorly in life without a woman in their life, that is why most women are able to influence powerfull men, because even men with a huge potential, most of the time lack motivation.
Women are not by far inferior beings, but women and men have gender traits, strenghts and limitations, if women try step over their boundaries little by little the social order is broken and men are the ones who suffer from this because of what was stated above.
The modern independant woman model is a danger to men not the women as beings.
A new model must be found and men should use their skills and patience to find the right women.Because if men mold themselves too much they sacrifice their personality entirely and this sounds like a death to me! Think!