>>11331
>On the contrary I would have complete control over you. In fact, everything would be done by my liking. Even the choices I give you would be nothing but an illusion on your end because in reality these are all my choices. I'm the one who would've given you the ultimatum out of my own sick games. If you are paralyzed, incapacitated, or immobilized then there's nothing you can really do about anything other than pray someone stops me.

Yes, you have complete control over my body or life but not over my mind. If I am paralyzed then it is all meaningless because I can not take any actions and your demands and choices are pointless. so being rational person you will not ask me to do anything I can't do.
If you want to use me in some ways you need to allow me to have some freedom like if you ask me to kill my family you probably need to give me a gun or something and then I have the freedom to do whatever I like in that context.

>>11331
> A surprise attack by a hungry bear even if a camper has been vigilant and armed as possible is not the camper's fault. It is the bear's. Likewise it is not the fault of the abuse victim when they're at the complete mercy of the abuser, it is the abuser's.

well if you blame abuser in the same way as a bear or hurricane I can not object, but I assumed we were talking about a different thing.
although in that situation you should not cover yourself with honey and then wander in the forest saying that "I have a right to dress however I like and bears should not attack me"
You have to take appropriate precautions against those things and gross negligence in regards to your safety will be on your conscience


do not misunderstand me that I am always blaming victims, victims need help, but they must also show some effort to deal with the situation as well rather than bragging about their suffering and doing nothing at all. If I see that victim can do something but refuses to do it then I declare that it is the choice.