And as I stated before the, bashing continues especially of the more intimate issues he just opened up on. If you would take the time to notice he not only just opened up about the abuse he endoured (women can rape too despite how much "cred" dudes supposedly get for it, Especially when they are not of age), but the entire tone of his writing style has changed as well. As a matter of fact I want to thank you for sharing. I want to say fuck those who abused you and that karma circles, but you will have to share a portion of getting those wheels turning. One of the simplest answers is closure. Publicly humiliate them with the truth of what happened to you. On their social media,send copies to their friends, coworkers, etc. Depending on the laws in your state, record your conversation (along with emails and screen shots of social media) to make sure you get every detail of what happened to you and how they participated or allowed it to happen. Compile everything into a file then send the recordings, a paper trail of your injuries and so on to those around them. Their jobs, family, friends, let them know the sort of person their dealing with. Social ostracization is one of the worst feeling and will break them from the inside. If the statute of limitations aren't up, take the recordings and information to the police to have them charged. Its alot of emotional turmoil at first, but once the dominos get the falling, it becomes one beautiful work of destruction. You were stripped of far too much of your power by these "parasites" and you have the opportunity to change that. It will have you vulnerable for a while having to explain it, but after a while that feeling subsides and you become more emboldened. Let your justice boner flourish. Every female you see is a reminder of those moments you had and it just reminds you you never got your fair share of closure or justice. This won't fix anything and I'm not trying to fix you, but believe you me the payoff is ooh so wonderful and will free you of the weight you never thought you had.

Side Note: Women rape too. Besides the stigma you can't get raped as a dude there are females who have drugged dudes or taken advantage of them while under the influence of something. Look up on youtube "reddit creepy women stories" or "reddit mentoo stories". It is not their faults either as you wouldn't tell a woman it was their fault for consumption or cloths or so, so please share the same respect. Every dude understands those fucked up moments where a female will do something to them like touch them unprovoked or another action where they picture if they themselves did the same action to that female how they would be jailed or possibly worse. That coupled with how cops or people in general will say you were lucky and any complaints they label you as petty, or a bitch or gay. I mean I even wrote in a post above this explaining this and its still happening. Early abuse from that went on for years can be brutal and degrading/humiliating. It isn't all "banged an older chick" it can be down right brutal/sadistic and they shouldn't be doing anything with someone under age at all. (If you change the genders and you feel enraged by the notion of that, re-evaluate yourself because its no different). A female who is bigger than them who just wants to hurt a male can hold them down, beat them, try to sexually torture them (especially their genitals), anything you can think of. These cunts generally do this to them because "they were hurt" and because a full blooded male (with cognitive mind, not under the influence or in "pinned" situation) would fuck them up or be able to avoid them (under the grounds if they explained why this girl had marks they wouldn't be believed and jailed or white knights would try stupid shit). They do not get slaps on the wrist from me I treat them the same.

Anytype of revenge porn is illegal, and I believe especially prosecuted depending on the state, like California (I take it you're from the states). Besides it being able to be ip traced (as every photo can be and has a region tracer to tell where and when the photo was taken, really hope you didnt take them but still can be fixed), if you have a confession from her screenshotted or recorded you can take her ass to court for pain and suffering and sue for amount excess of 5k, and thats just regular court not higher one for higher amounts like appellate. That and you can slap her ass with jail time and report to the website they may be posted on your situation and have them taken down. On top of that, they maybe under a legal obligation to help you(>:D) and give the ip to the cops or to you/someone you choose. Figuratively nail that bitch to the cross. You can reverse lookup the images on google to see if a website carries them to make sure their all gone.

I think that you likely are a generally decent dude and that years of abuse made you more gentle, yet filled you with rage and hatred. You don't want to hurt or be bothered, but your past still hurts and haunts you. Not being bothered may be the best option right now, especially because you can love yourself and find ways around relying on them for emotional support. You're family/friends (likely even your father),someone you can talk to and rely on can fill the void from you being lonely and show you the various ways you don't "need" to be in a relationship to be happy. You can also rely on them during the process of all this. I think you may give yourself away in portions because you wanted genuine love you never felt from a female, especially not your mother. But, you reject them because they can't fill that void or you identify them right out as trying to take advantage of you, especially in your weakened state (not physically but mentally) becuase of the red flags you've learned to identify. Unfortunately, people will love to take advantage of your kindness until they bleed you dry and then discard you. If you try to explain it or talk to them about why, you become the "aggressor". I've seen it happen many times and you can generally tell when some dudes dont intervene in situations like that by the look on their faces saying whether or not they should trust the females statement because they have been through similar. I see what your really wanted in the first place, but have constantly been let down. As much as it may piss some of the people off here, I genuinely hope the best for you, and if you want to talk more I'll try to come up with a solution so it will be more private. I dont generally like for people to try to call you gay or call you names/try to degrade you (I do understand the irony of the situation, but because of the circumstances of victimization he suffered you can understand why he got to this point and how it really wouldn't help anyway by literally trying to or accidentally replicating the same behavior they did), which just still continues the circle and either enrages you or you in general ignore them while digging deeper. I feel what you're saying and pick up on what you're not.

Also btw for those insisting, confirmed it was infact a female who was abusing him besides his mother. I also believe the mother knew and probably egged (and joined in on) the abuse on and the father found out and protected his son. He also opened up so maybe don't try to salt the wound while he has explained personal background.

I hate that that happened to you and hopefully you can get the ball rolling.

"All it needs is a little push";)

>:)