Onix, have you ever dated? Anyone who has dated women has met women with high sex drives. I've dated women who exhausted me with their sex drives.

Also, go read female forums. When there aren't swarms of men to harass them, women openly talk to each other about their sexual fantasies and experiences.

You'll probably never experience sexual enthusiasm from a woman if you treat her like an object with no sexual desires of her own, just a thing for you to fuck. So it becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy: your views about women prevent you from having any experiences that will challenge those views.