> statistics

Statistics you invented in your head.

Women with high sex drives are common; the female bell curve might skew lower than the male bell curve, but the skew is much smaller than you seem to believe. Libidinous women might seem rare in Japan, but how women seem in Japan is not how women are. Japanese culture doesn't expect women to want or pursue sex, and disrespects them for doing so. In Japanese culture, sex is for the man, and, unsurprisingly, this attitude has consequences. To reuse the phrase from my last comment, it's a self-fulfilling prophecy. Japanese culture constructs a fake woman and forces real women to act like her. Compare how Japanese women act in Japan to how they act after living abroad for a few years. Even their voices are lower and less childish. Controlling for height and weight, Japanese women living in Japan have some of the highest voices in the world. Having such a high voice is an artificial cultural construct that women go along with in Japan.

Male and female sexuality do (on average) function in different ways. Women tend to be less visual and anatomical in their fantasies. Also, women are more likely than men to need an emotional connection for sex, and in patriarchal cultures like Japan this connection is harder to find. Compare women in East Germany and West Germany, before the fall of the Berlin wall. Both were patriarchal cultures, but East Germany less so.

Finally, I cannot imagine a woman feeling an emotional, sexual connection to a man who says what you say and believes what you believe about women. Of course the women you date are going to seem sexually passive. You are making them passive.

> swarms of men harassing women with high sex drives

Swarms of men will harass literally any young woman on the internet. You're showing your ignorance of women and what they experience.

Also, this behavior by men does not indicate that men just have *that much* more sex drive (the bell curve skew is not this extreme), it mostly indicates that men feel *that much more entitled* to women and do not respect women's boundaries.

> women fantasize about being objects

This phrase can be interpreted in a way that is true for some women, but I think you and I are using the word "object" in two different ways.

You are using it to mean "not taking the lead in sex." I am using it to mean "no interest in sex." This is also what you originally said - that women "have practically no interest in sex."

I want to emphasize this point: you acknowledge that women have sexual fantasies, so you must acknowledge that women have an interest in sex.

Some women might have kinks and fantasies about scenarios where a partner treats them like an object, because the power imbalance turns them on. Let me emphasize that: IT TURNS THEM ON. Makes them horny. Because they are interested in sex. What you are describing is a submissive fantasy. This phenomenon is different from the one where a woman lies motionless during sex and does not react. Lying there like a dead fish often indicates either shyness, cultural repression, and/or a lack of emotional connection with their partner. Of course, cultural repression and a lack of emotional connection with one's partner often go hand in hand.