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first not sure why you are bringing up Japan, all women are pretty similar, besides maybe black women in africa who see to be more sexuslly aggressive according to some testimonies of people who went there.

This statistic is not from my head it is practically common knowledge. It was tested in multiple social studies dating site experiments and "folklore". it was discussed by psychiatrists and marriage counselors.

>Male and female sexuality do (on average) function in different ways.
Yes, exactly my point. and in other words it means women are practically asexusl by male definition it is same as if we compare flying abilities of the plane and submarine both can move from one place to another but submarines don't fly.

You should not need any sexual connection you just want to do it with anyone because you just want it then you do it with with someone or with your hand if you have no such desire you by definition have no sex drive. because sex drive is what makes you actively seek sex with anyone it is not some kind of response to to something it is like hunger or tiredness.
see how cats in heat behave? That's sex drive.
A woman with high sex drive should be pretty aroused most of the time constantly thinking about sex to the level where it even starts to interfere with her life as it woud not allow her to concentrate and she would need to get off somehow.


>Also, this behavior by men does not indicate that men just have *that much* more sex drive (the bell curve skew is not this extreme), it mostly indicates that men feel *that much more entitled* to women and do not respect women's boundaries.
It means men are sexually hungry and frustrated and they are behaving exactly how any animal woud behave in that situation that's how your dog behaves as well who proceeds to rape every visitor who enters your room. yes humans have more self control but it does not make sense to repress yourself all the time and don't even get anything back for your effort.
And in the ideal world women woud behave exactly the same they woud also harass men behave very provocatively break their boundaries and that woud be equality between sexes.
Also in general this kind of behavior is pretty rational because by harassing women you can quickly screen for those who are interested in sex because they will respond favorably.


And enough of that nonsense that women are in any way represed or controlled. they are completely free and for decades the only reason why they fell so is because if she is behaving like a slut she has no chances to marry high value man who is usually looking for submissive frigid ice queen because he is not interested in sex himself, too busy working. That's why we have female genital mutilation to make girls more attractive to those highly desirable men.
if as a woman you are just interested in sex and fun you will have infinite amount of men who will love you but they probably will be all broke because they focus on sex rather than work and achievements just like you do.
Good example is that porn star who came up and made a claim that she was horribly cheated and abused by those evil men. Poor damsel in distress was not aware what she was doing even if she wrote the script herself for her own rape movie.
If women are controlled by anything its evolution, because those who had low sex drive found higher value men than those who had sex with everything what moves and died in poverty which is why they evolved to be frigid and passive.


>You are using it to mean "not taking the lead in sex." I am using it to mean "no interest in sex." This is also what you originally said - that women "have practically no interest in sex."

when we speak about objects it is not exactly related to interest in sex, because in general *if you do not take the lead you are object* either you act or others act on you. it is separate topic which you brought about me treating women as sex objects, which is absolutely wrong in my case (but valid for any other people here who want women to be sex objects)

Yes, if woman has sexual fantasies then she does have interest in sex and that is very good. That's exactly a woman which I woud like. And I recommend to everyone to love and treat her well, consider that you won jackpot and don't hurt her because next one you will me will not be like that. The problem is that most women don't have any of those sexusl fantasies or they are very rare for them.

Lying like a dead fish is neither shyness or cultural repression. it is simply not being interested in sex and just pleasing a guy to get some other benefits from him.
sometimes it can mean that she has some other sexual fantasies like maybe she wants rough sex or maybe some more cuddling but either the guy is not interested in that or she is not telling what she wants
but most likely she is just not interested in sex at all and her head is full of some other thoughts.