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> study shows women are basically asexual

not really, most women in the sample fantasized and got aroused between once a week and once a day

Also, check out the enormous gap between Macau women and US women. The real story here is the impact of culture. What will the numbers be in 100 years?

The study collates self-reported responses from 353 college undergraduates in Macau and the US. Take a look at the breakdown for arousal across female students:

78.0% Macau, 18.5% US ---- "seldom" getting aroused
13.4% Macau, 36.2% US ---- getting aroused once a week
7.3% Macau, 33.8% US ---- getting aroused once a day
0.0% Macau, 11.5% US ---- getting aroused more than once a day

And for fantasizing:

59.5% Macau, 34.1% US ---- "seldom" fantasizing
29.7% Macau, 35.3% US ---- fantasizing once a month
8.1% Macau, 24.7% US ---- fantasizing once a day
2.7% Macau, 5.9% US ---- fantasizing more than once a day

The cultural difference is massive. How and why does this occur?

> table shows that women's sexualities are inherently fragile and easily suppressed, while men's sexualities are unstoppable

Does it?

Do you think men and women face similar pressures and men just bear them better?

Or maybe you think men and women face different pressures with similar magnitudes?

I invite you to visit planet Earth. I will host you.

> 3 of 4 men will be left with no sex

You should try foreplay some time.

A partner can arouse a woman who might not get aroused often by herself. Conversation, touch, cuddling, leading into kissing and petting, then sex. Arousal tends to be a more mental game for women than for men, and some women just need a little warming up to get the machinery running. Even a woman who only masturbates a few times a month will still seek partners and respond to intimacy. Sex will still be a motive in her life.

One of my first girlfriends in college had never cum or masturbated before. The first time we had sex we basically spent the whole evening working up to it. Second time was much quicker. Later in the relationship when we lived together we were fucking almost once a day for a while, and often she would initiate. She also started masturbating, I think because sex was just on her mind more often and she was more in-tune with her body.

your study's fine but here are some more studies to round out the picture:

https://www.sci-hub.st/10.1080/0092623X.2011.628440
masturbation in women. 88% of women in the sample masturbate, and most masturbate at least once a month

https://www.sci-hub.st/10.1080/01614576.1991.11074012
old study on orgasms and fantasizing across generations: each generation was more sexual than the last.

https://sci-hub.st/https://doi.org/10.1023/A:1018740210472
force in women's fantasies - not all respondents fantasize about force, but almost all respondents fantasize.

https://www.tandfonline.com/doi/full/10.1080/23268743.2021.1956366
not scientific or a representative sample, but interesting. 2000+ Finnish women discuss the extreme porn they watch

> hymen was enough

hymens break easily. More importantly, infibulation does more than just prove she's a virgin, it ensures that she stays a virgin. It physically prevents sex, like a chastity belt.

less extreme forms of FGM also have this function. FGM makes sex painful, which prevents women from seeking sex. This helps ensure virginity before marriage and fidelity after.

my understanding, and I might be wrong, is that virginity and fidelity helped avoid STIs and conflicts over property inheritance. Hard to prove fatherhood back then.

> women don't watch porn

yes they do, just less often. Google Scholar it. Also, women tend to be less visual than men.

> where are the coomer girls

reading gay fan-fiction
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