i'll respond in depth later when I have time, but the way I see it, you live in a culture that stifles women's libidos and then you go online and complain about women having no libidos. you might think stifling is just revealing the "normal, innate" state of women's sexuality, but I would argue that this is an artificial situation that does not reflect evolutionary conditions or the direction the world is headed today. It is the remnant of a temporary period in human history when women in certain farming cultures were enslaved, confined to the home, and denied proper development of their sexualities.