>>1538
I was trying to be concise, but "prevent from feeling" is a little too concise.

...I feel like I am one of those pilots on the ground who talks on the phone with a passenger to help them land the plane, only the person on the other end is not a passenger in a plane but rather someone in a hospital attempting to perform a surgery, so we are looking at two totally different things and nothing I say about the cockpit of a plane is going to make sense to a man holding a scalpel and looking into someone's chest cavity.

our understandings of women are just too different, and this thread is not the kind of discussion that is going to bridge that gap. it's too much of a "who's right" contest.

I have to be concise because the more I say the more opportunities there are for you to misinterpret me, but there is a lot to say. "the nature of a person" is not a thing you can summarize.