>>1635
You still got the wrong idea, as you think that I am complaining that I was told how to read and write and rather stay illiterate.
but my point is exactly that it turned out to be useful after all and i don't complain about what was done to me even if that was horrible torture for me (while other things were useless and probably even that reading stuff could be done in some better way but we can ignore those details here)

So in comparison to FGM I use same logic that because woman was properly mutilated she got better value husband and she does not complain about the sacrifice which she was forced to make. furthermore she will even mutilate her daughters because she knows that it turned out pretty well and probably it will work just as good for her daughters.

FGM benefits women and it has no benefit for their husbands, because by getting mutilated woman gets better quality husband just like by learning how to read and write you get better job and you don't say that education benefits employers. Uncircumcised woman will still be able to marry but her husband will be some low value loser who does not work as much as the proper good quality husband.

Destroying pleasure is precisely the main intent because if a woman gets taste of that pleasure she may get distracted from her primary task.
Here we can draw analogy with drugs that parents want to prevent their children from even trying. If you try drugs you will not become addicted but you will get taste of the pleasure which you will be willing to repeat again and again
Same as masturbation which when you learn how to do you do it when you can.

So I wonder how it woud turn out if FGM was performed at the later age when girl can make a conscious decision if she wants to give up the pleasure for the perspectives of better husband and more wealth or she rather keeps the pleasure and foreuts ability to get high value husband?
and also whether getting mutilated at the later age woud not even be considered cheating because girl probably experienced the pleasure already so she will be mentally ruined as she will be trying to repeat it. just like a drug used will never get rid of the desire to repeat their drugs.