I think there should be quite a lot of good looking people but many people are just old in general what drops quite some points from their looks. Also level of kinkiness increases with age :)

The bigger problem is that there are not that many women interested in anything kinky or unusual and looks like we may have even more transgender women than real women in this community :)

What I find interesting that majority of girls who cut themselves or engage in other self destructive behavior like dream about being killed or tortured and they even look like supermodels but they hate anything sexual.
There may be some general trend that the better looking is the person the more asexual(or even antisexual) they are. or maybe just majority of people (especially women) have very low sex drive regardless of their looks or interest.
Also as I noticed most people hate their guro related kinks in general living in guilt (repeating that it is just a fantasy) and they will hate anyone who likes same things as they like.

But ignoring that, I think most people related to guro stuff and are really "practicing" it look surprisingly good after all, especially if they are asians.
Looks like they would not mind to practice that with someone of the same age. but you must be also self destructive to get into any kind of relationship with them or be rejected. And also very likely this is not going to end very well if you expect to stay alive and unharmed ;)