>>13725
idk a lot of the people i've seen in guro communities are relatively attractive. especially those who make irl simulated snuff content/hard kink. Back when i was still dating around my local bdsm scene a LOT of people were super hot, and typically the hotter the person the harder their kinks were.
from the way op talks about people tho… i'm guessing it's more of an attitude issue. to me, the way op talks about other people is a huge red flag.
a lot of other women tend to circulate content and talk about things online through other platforms. Usually private discord servers, through ao3 or on tumblr. typically literary centered platforms are where femmes congregate. with comics/vn's as the secondary format. ESPECIALLY vn's right now with the rise of murdersims and horror romance as a genre.
tldr; you're not in the right circles and you sound like a dick :/