I think your expectations are quite unreasonable even in theory but I guess you are not asking for advice here.
Yeah, this is a problem for me as well, because all people around are such a boring normies and everyone who woud be worth dating are on the another side of the globe if they even show any interest in real life meeting at all.
Even worse there are practically no women around who would be interested into same things as me even on internet. and I am wondering if they even exist in reality, there are only plenty of guys who woud be great if we were gay LOL