I'm the anon who posted about male hybrostophilia and having a fetish for gang-leader girls and war-crime torturer women.
When I do fantasize it's never "bdsm" because that implies: consent, lifestyle-ism , the "sub" man is able to just beat up the woman or refuse to comply 99% of the time ,etc. I just wish a real cult schizo girl or an old war criminal lady wanted to use my body for sadistic practices and tortures.