thedarkspottwo.com is pretty great imo.

There's a complete ban on anything loli and theyre EXTREMELY vigilant on this. I guess to avoid any risk of the site getting banned. Apart from that it's a great source for snuff stories, 3d art, drawings, and clips from films etc.

There's not that much in terms of hard gore, it's mostly asphyxia stuff, but there's a few gorier bits about if you dig.