> this is mostly due to gelbooru (and rule34 for some bizarre reason recently) deciding that they don't want to moderate "extreme" fetish content anymore and have basically gone crazy using a ban hammer and deleting every single post that isn't the most generic fetish or porn ever, it really sucks

Don't be stupid, did you even read the message they give you? You have to click "settings" then "allow all content". That's where they put loli as well. Yes, torture is still on gelbooru.