Your idea is cool. Unfortunatelly, I don't know of any art of sorts. I recall some tv show about investigative work where one of the criminals forced the victims to do what you described (in this case, forced sons to punch their mothers, tied to chairs) and I always felt hot for the idea.

I would like to add scat to your idea, if anyone else can contribute. I find it even hotter if the girlfriend being punched by her boyfriend starts shitting herself, to add to the humiliation.