>>1194
Similar to my own experience, definitely. Even on the relatively rare occasion I get somebody to agree to a scene, play it through, everything seems to go well... they just vanish. No interest in iterative refinement, developing a relationship, anything like that.

Sucks sometimes, being demisexual. Shout-out to any feminists in the audience! Are you concerned about having your feelings ignored, of being treated as a fetish object? I can guarantee I'd never do such a thing! That's just not how I'm wired. I'm literally NOT CAPABLE of getting turned on without empathy, without being completely SURE that everyone else involved is having a good time too. Isn't that what you claim to want?